LPPTV Episode 17 - Why Do Women Ignore Me? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Why Do Women Ignore Me?

In the last episode of LPPTV we looked at a question which I hear from a lot of women.  This week I wanted to do an episode which speaks specifically to men. While the issue that I talk about today affects both men and women, this question was sent into me from a man who […]

The Big Virtual Detox With Rachel Swann - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

What’s The One Tip That Can Transform Any Type Of Relationship?

This is the time when normally I would be sharing my weekly LPPTV episode, but this week I want to share something a little bit different. You see this week I was asked by the lovely Rachel Swann to join her on her Big Virtual Detox to share some advice for everyone on relationships. I […]

LPPTV Episode 16 - How Do I Keep Him? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

How Do I Keep Him?

I don’t know any woman who hasn’t had this thought at some point in her life. You’re dating a man that you think is amazing. He has all of the qualities that you’re looking for in your ideal partner. You feel happy around him. You believe this could be ‘The One’. The only thing that […]

What is feminine not?

What Is Feminine Not?

When people learn the name of my website, one of the first questions I get asked is ‘What is Polarity?’ Having answered this question in Episode 6 of LPPTV, the next two questions tend to come quite quickly. Having learned that polarity is the natural attraction between the masculine and the feminine, the next obvious […]

LPPTV Episode 15 - Should I Listen To Other People About My Relationship - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Should I Listen To Other People About My Relationship?

We all have people in our lives who care about us, and they want the best for us. When we’re having challenges in our relationship it can be helpful to get some outside opinions and advice to help guide us through it. But what happens if the advice doesn’t quite match up with what we […]

LPPTV Episode 14 - How Can I Be Less Needy In Relationships - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

How Can I Be Less Needy In Relationships?

We’re all aware that neediness is not generally a very attractive quality in relationships. At some point in our lives we’ve all experienced neediness. We’ve either been with someone who felt insatiable when it came to their needs, it didn’t matter how much we did or how much we gave it didn’t seem enough. Or […]

LPPTV Episode 13 - Have You Given Up Your Passions For The Person You're Passionate About - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Have You Given Up Your Passions For The Person You’re Passionate About?

We all know that passion in a relationship is important. We want that spark that turns into a flame, which turns into fireworks. When we begin seeing someone new, it’s easy for our passion for them to take over our lives a little bit.  We want to spend every moment with them, we want to […]

LPPTV Episode 12 - How Can You Get Comfortable Talking To Attractive People - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

How Can You Get Comfortable With Talking To Attractive People?

We’ve all been there. You see someone across a room who’s really attractive, but the very thought of going up to them and starting a conversation leaves your mouth dry, your palms sweaty and your heart feeling like it’s about to leap out of your chest. I don’t know about you, but this was something […]

LPPTV Episode 11 - How To Compromise Without Compromising Yourself - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

How Do You Compromise In Relationships Without Compromising Yourself?

When the topic of conflict in relationships comes up, the other ‘C’ word is often not far behind. Compromise. The challenge with compromise is that it often brings with it a feeling of needing to ‘give something up’, losing something, or compromising who we are and it can often leave us feeling a bit resentful. […]

LPPTV Episode 10 - What Do You Do If A Guy Or Girl Suddenly Loses Interest? Part 2 - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

What’s The Second Thing You Do When Someone Suddenly Loses Interest?

Last week I began to answer a question that I get asked all the time….what do you do if a guy or girl suddenly loses interest? It happens all the time, things seem to be going really well and all of a sudden something changes, but you’ve no idea why. I’ve already share the first […]

LPPTV Episode 9 - What Do You Do If A Guy Or Girl Suddenly Loses Interest? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

What do You Do If A Guy Or Girl Suddenly Loses Interest?

There’s nothing worse. Things have been going really well. You’ve been seeing someone for a while and all of the signs have been really great.  You’ve been seeing each other all the time, texting, calling they even brought up the topic of exclusivity. But then it happens. Nothing. Nada. Total Crickets. All of a sudden […]

What is the key to great relationships?

If Relationships Are The Key To Life, What Is The Key To Having Great Relationships?

Why do I say that relationship are the key to life? Well, it’s really simple. Every single area of your life is affected by relationships, they play a part in every single aspect of our lives. We’ve got our intimate relationships with our partners, relationships with family, friends and people at work like our colleagues, […]

LPPTV Episode 8 - What Does Rejection Really Mean? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

LPPTV Episode 8 – What Does Rejection Really Mean?

This week has been pretty interesting.  I was interviewed for a documentary called “Love in Your Pocket”, which is all about how technology is affecting our experience of dating. I was asked a lot of questions and some really interesting topics came up, one of which seemed too important not to share via LPPTV. I’ve […]

Holding Hands Conscious Coupling Conscious Uncoupling

Forget Conscious Uncoupling, How About We Try Conscious Coupling?

We’ve all heard about Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin’s decision to go their own separate ways by ‘conscious uncoupling’ and the media backlash that it sparked.  I’ve read many articles dripping with disdain for the use of a term that is widely misunderstood. Well unlike many people, the term was not new to me.  Having […]

LPPTV Episode 7 - How Do You Know When You're Ready To Move On? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

LPPTV Episode 7 – How Do You Know When You’re Ready To Move On?

Whenever you come out of a long term relationship, whether it was your choice or not, it can take some time to get to the point where you’re ready to date again. We can go through the process as if we’re grieving, because we’ve ‘lost’ something.  Either something that we had, or the potential of […]

How to resolve conflict

What’s the First Step to Solving Any Relationship Conflict?

Let’s face it, when you bring two people together for any period of time, sooner or later there is going to be a difference of opinion. I’ve not yet heard of two people anywhere who always think the exact same thing, at the exact same time with no variance whatsoever. ..and so there is going […]

LPPTV Episode 6 – What Is Polarity?

When I was first learning about relationships, there was one concept in particular that completely transformed both how I saw myself, and my understanding of relationships. It was the understanding that led me to launch my first website, Feminine 1st, and it’s a crucial part of the work I teach today. It’s also the concept […]

LPPTV Episode 5 - Why Is Rejection Awesome? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

LPPTV Episode 5 – Why Is Rejection Awesome?

When working with men and women around the world the one fear that comes up time and time and time again is ‘rejection’. Everyone seems to be afraid of rejection. In fact, most people are downright terrified of it. People will do almost anything to avoid rejection: Twist themselves into a pretzel to be the […]

Can someone change?

Can A Person Really Change?

Sometimes in my line of work I get to have a really good giggle to myself. I imagine one (or many!) of my ex-boyfriends from years ago, browsing the internet (as we all do from time to time), looking up people they used to know and seeing what they’re up to these days. I imagine […]

LPPTV Episode 4 - How Do I Get Any Girl (or Guy)? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

LPPTV Episode 4 – How Do I Get Any Girl (or Guy) I Want?

Most of us have wondered at some point or another in our dating history how we can get someone to like us. We’ve met someone who we felt really attracted to, who we wanted to date, or to have a relationship with, but for some reason they didn’t seem to feel the same. It’s frustrating, […]