LPPTV Episode 26 - What 1 secret will make Christmas better for any relationship situation? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

What 1 Secret Will Make Christmas Better For ANY Relationship Situation?

LPPTV Episode 26 - What 1 secret will make Christmas better for any relationship situation? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionChristmas can be a really challenging time for relationships.  It doesn’t seem to matter what your relationship situation is, whether you’re single, you’ve newly met someone or have been together for years, Christmas can create some difficulties.

If you’re single the holiday season can seem to be a minefield of happy couples, relatives questioning when you’re finally going to meet that special someone and celebrations that you’d really rather attend with a plus one.

If you’re in a relationship and things seem to be going well, there can be a pressure to create the ‘Perfect Christmas,’ where everything is magical and each moment is filled with Christmas sparkle.

And if you’re in a relationship where things aren’t as ‘Merry and Bright’ as you would ideally like, the multitude of festive stresses from finances, to gift giving, to spending time with the family and juggling the Christmas cooking can create explosions out of the smallest disagreements.

Everyone at this time of year tends to be looking for advice on how to have the best Christmas possible.  Given that the season is usually about spending time with your nearest and dearest having a secret that can help you to have the best Christmas ever, regardless of your relationship status and situation, is pretty helpful.

So today I share with you the 1 secret that will make your Christmas more enjoyable for you and those around you, regardless of whether you’re single, have just met your partner, or have been together for years. Watch the video now to find out how this secret can help you to have the best Christmas possible…

Tweet the Love… The Best Gift You Can Give This Year Is Simply Being Present @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you. Are you concerned about relationship challenges at Christmas? Are you single and dreading the family gatherings? Are you worried about arguments ruining the festivities? Have you tried what I suggest in the video and found it’s made a real difference? Do you think this would be helpful from your experience? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You A Wonderful Christmas Filled With Love, Laughter and Special Memories.

With Love,

Claire x

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How Fast Should You Go From Online Dating To Real Life?

These days, when people are looking to begin dating or meeting new people, they will often give online dating a go.

It’s a great way to meet people who are actively telling you that they’re interested in dating.

It’s also a great way to meet more people then you would in your average week going about your day-to-day life.

But the question I often get asked is how quickly do you move a connection created online to meeting in real life?

Do you want to meet as soon as you connect?

Or do you want to build the connection online first?

As someone who has done quite a bit of online dating in the past, I’ve experienced both, and so I know from first hand experience what works, and what doesn’t, and it might not be what you’re expecting.

So how fast should you wait before moving an online connection into the real world? Watch the video now to find out…

AND if you scroll down, I’ve got a special little message to share with you after today’s episode of LPPTV, with an exciting announcement.

Tweet the Love… As Soon As You’ve Established Interest, Find A Way To Meet @LovePPassion

…and here’s the little announcement that I wanted to share with you as it’s very much connected to today’s episode of LPPTV…

Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you done much online dating? Have you waited to connect in person, or have you met straight away? What has your experience been? Which has worked better for you? Which do you think would work best from your experience? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 24 - When Does 1+1 in a Relationship Not Equal 2 - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

When Does 1+1 in a Relationship NOT Equal 2?

LPPTV Episode 24 - When Does 1+1 in a Relationship Not Equal 2 - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionGenerally speaking we’ve come to expect that 1+1 equals 2.

So in the majority of monogamous relationships, it would be reasonable to expect that the same principe would apply.

But the reality is that in relationships 1+1 does not always equal 2.

Sometimes it equals 2.

Sometimes it equals 0.

Sometimes it equals way MORE than 2.

So how does this work?

How do you avoid 1+1 equalling 0?

…and how do you create a relationship where 1+1 adds up to WAY more than 2?

Watch the video now to find out…

Tweet the Love… The Relationships Where 1+1 = Way More Than 2 Are Where The Magic Is @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you ever had a situation like the one I described in the video? Have you had 1+1 that equals zero? Have you ever experienced what it’s like to have 1+1 add up to way more than 2? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 23 - Claire, Do You Ever Argue With Your Partner? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Claire, Do You Ever Argue With Your Partner?

LPPTV Episode 23 - Claire, Do You Ever Argue With Your Partner? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionI’ve been working as a coach and mentor for a few years now, and I’ve been asked some interesting questions in that time.

I’ve been asked about dating, sex, unconventional relationships, you name it.

But a few months ago I was asked the question that stopped me dead in my tracks.

“Claire, Do You Ever Argue with Your Partner?”

I stopped, I laughed, and then I gave her my reply.

The honest truth is that I didn’t want to get in front of the camera today.

I didn’t want to record this video.

…and then I realised precisely why I needed to.

Today I share very openly about my own personal relationship, in a way that you won’t hear many relationship experts speaking.

So, the question is DO I ever argue with my partner?

Watch the video now to find out…

Tweet the Love… In Order To Take The Best Care Of Your Relationship, First Take Care Of Yourself @LovePPassion

.Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you ever had a situation like the one I described in the video? Have you noticed a time when you’re arguing more with your partner? Have you tried what I suggested in the video, and have you seen a difference? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 22 - Is Commitment Killing Your Relationship?

Is Commitment Killing Your Relationship?

LPPTV Episode 22 - Is Commitment Killing Your Relationship? In my experience, the majority of people at some point in their life will be looking for a long-term, committed relationship.

Someone to spend the rest of their days with.

Someone to grow old with.

Someone to share their life with.

Someone to marry.

Someone to have children with.

Someone who will be there forever.

We get told from the age we can understand words all about ‘happily ever after’, the holy grail of relationships.

…and most people, including relationship experts, will tell you that commitment is a good thing in a relationship.

So today, I’m going to be just a little bit controversial and say that commitment isn’t always a good thing.

In fact, commitment could be killing your relationship.

Want to know why? Watch the video now to find out…

Tweet the Love… If You Want Your Partner To Show Up Tomorrow, You Have To Show Up Today @LovePPassion

…and before you start wondering whether I am telling you NOT to be committed in a relationship, it’s not quite as simple as that. But what I will say that if you try what I’ve shared in the video, it has the capacity to transform your relationship completely. This has worked magic for several of my clients and has transformed my own relationship.

Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you every considered whether commitment could be causing problems in your relationship? Do you recognise any of the situations I mentioned in the video? Have you been desperate to get commitment from your partner, and has it pushed them away? How did you deal with it? Have you tried what I talk about in the video? How did it change things for you? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 21 - Is there any such thing as the one

Is There Any Such Thing As ‘The One’?

LPPTV Episode 21 - Is there any such thing as the oneIs he the one for me?

Is she the one for me?

I have been asked by both the young and the old whether there is any such thing as ‘the one’.

In our culture, we seem to be fixated on finding ‘the one’, that one special person who is a perfect fit for us.

…and we tend to believe that if we find ‘the one’ that everything else will be relatively easy. If a relationship is challenging, we can assume that we’ve made a mistake, that they’re not ‘the one’ and therefore want to move on to someone else, afraid we’re wasting our time with the wrong person and that we might be missing out on finding our ‘one’.

I too was always trying to analyse if the person in my life was ‘the one’. For years, each relationship I was constantly checking, analysing, judging…was the person I had in front of me my ‘one’?

I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve had the conversation “Is there any such thing as the one?” and most people have asked themselves this question at some point or another, but rarely do they find an answer.

Have you always been on the look out for the right person? Have you been trying endlessly to find the perfect person to spend the rest of your life with? Is this causing any problems in your current relationship? And more importantly, are you being realistic?

Would you like to know if there’s one perfect person out there for you? Watch today’s video now to find out…

Tweet the Love… Rather than looking for the one, look for the right one for right now @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you been looking for the one?  Did you think it was possible to find the perfect person? Did this cause any problems in your relationship? Are you always trying to analyse the person who is with you and trying to find out if he/she is the perfect person? Has this ruined your relationship? Have you tried what I mentioned in the video? Did it work for you?  Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 20 - How Can You Travel Together Without Ruining Your Relationship? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

How Do You Travel Together Without Ruining Your Relationship?

LPPTV Episode 20 - How Can You Travel Together Without Ruining Your Relationship? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionI don’t know about you, but I can’t tell you about the number of trips that I’ve been on where a problem with the person I’ve been travelling with has really put a dampener on the trip.

Whether that person was a friend, a family member, a partner or even a stranger I met while on my trip, I can remember challenges with pretty much all of them at some time or another.

I can vividly recall (much to my embarrassment now) arguments in Epcot Centre in Orlando, on the streets of Prague and countless other destinations over the years.

…and unfortunately I’m not alone.

From a recent piece of research, it was discovered that when travelling with a partner, 79% of people have at least 2 big fights on a trip, 62% fight daily and for a shocking 12% of couples the problems on a trip caused a relationship to end.

I’ve also been in that last group too.

But why does travelling with someone else create such challenges?  Well, when you’re together, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, it puts a magnifying glass on your relationship.  The good stuff gets better…and the challenges, well, they can seem overwhelming.

So when someone asked me how you can travel with someone, friend, family member, partner, or even someone you’ve just met, without it ruining both your trip and your relationship…and even how the experience of travel can improve your relationship, I had to record an episode of LPPTV to share with you.

So how do you travel together without ruining your relationship?  Watch the video now to find out…

Tweet the Love… In Order To Prevent Challenges When Travelling Make Sure You Communicate @LovePPassion

…and if you’re planning a trip with someone and want even more tips and advice on how travelling together can enhance and improve your trip and your relationship, click here now to see the videos I mention above.

Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you ever travelled with someone else?  How did it go? Was it smooth sailing? Or did you have some problems? Has travelling with someone else ruined a trip? Or a relationship? Have you tried what I mentioned in the video? Did it work for you?  Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 19 - Why The Grass Is Never Greener - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Why The Grass Is Never Greener…

LPPTV Episode 19 - Why The Grass Is Never Greener - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionI’ve been there, and I’m sure you have too.

For whatever reason, your current relationship situation isn’t quite working out the way you want it to.

Maybe you’re in a relationship and having some problems.

Maybe you’re single and not enjoying it.

Maybe you’ve changed how you feel about the person you’re with.

You look around you at the other people in your life – family, friends, colleagues, even strangers – and we see what they have, and it seems so much better.

Maybe they’re single and you love the idea of all the freedom they seem to have.

Maybe they’re in a relationship that seems to be wonderful, and better than any you’ve ever experienced.

Maybe they’re having an affair and seem to be having the best of both worlds.

We look and it seems like the grass is greener in their field.

I see this all the time, this concept causes people to end their relationship and later regret it, jump into relationships that aren’t right for them, just so they’re not single any more, or choose to cheat on their partner.

But I’m here to tell you that the grass is NEVER greener.

How can I be so sure?  Watch the video now to find out…

Tweet the Love… The Grass Is Always Greener Where You Water It @LovePPassion

…and before I get a raft of comments asking if I’m saying that you should never leave a relationship, or give up your single life, I’m not saying that you shouldn’t do either of these things.  What I’m saying is before you do, consider both sides of both coins, and make sure the choice you make really is the right one for you.

Now I’d love to hear from you. Have you ever looked at what someone else has and thought ‘I want that’? Has it led you to make a hasty choice, that you’ve since regretted? Have you jumped into another field to find that the grass isn’t greener, it’s just a different shade of green? Or have you changed your approach to your own relationship, and seen your own grass get greener?  Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, is there a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV? What is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 18 - How Do You Trust Again? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

How Do You Trust Again?

LPPTV Episode 18 - How Do You Trust Again? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Most of us, at some point in our lives have suffered the pain of a broken heart.

We’ve loved, we’ve lost and quite often we find out along the way that the person we chose might not have been quite who we thought they were.

We might have had experiences where we’ve been lied to, where we were on the receiving end of infidelity, where we were taken advantage of financially, or simply that the person we thought we knew wasn’t the person we thought they were.

I’ve been there myself, in fact I’ve experienced each of the scenarios I’ve mentioned above.

I’ve also hit the point that many others do, where I ask myself, “How can I do this again? How can I go through this again? How can I trust someone new?”

So when I was asked the question “How can I learn to trust again in a new relationship? I knew I had to do an episode of LPPTV.

So, how do you trust again? Watch the video now to find out:

Tweet the Love… In Order To Trust Somebody Else First Learn To Trust Yourself @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you.

Have you ever wondered how you’ll be able to trust again? Do you want to know how to build the trust I speak about in the video? Have you been let down and it affected your ability to trust? Have you tried what I’ve spoken about in the video, and learned to trust again? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 15 - Should I Listen To Other People About My Relationship - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

Should I Listen To Other People About My Relationship?

LPPTV Episode 15 - Should I Listen To Other People About My Relationship - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionWe all have people in our lives who care about us, and they want the best for us.

When we’re having challenges in our relationship it can be helpful to get some outside opinions and advice to help guide us through it.

But what happens if the advice doesn’t quite match up with what we wanted to hear?

…or if our friends and family decide to start sharing their opinion when we’d rather they kept them to themselves and let us figure it out on our own?

Should we listen to the advice of others when it comes to our relationship, or should we go it alone?

I know that there have been times when people have shared with me when I really wish they’d kept their thoughts to themselves, likewise there were times when I wanted advice when people didn’t tell me what they thought.

So I was really pleased when someone sent in this question to Love Polarity & Passion:  My parents say they doubt about if he’s the right man for me, do I need to listen and is it their place to voice their opinion to me?

So should you listen to others about your relationship?  Watch the video now to find out:

Tweet the Love… The Only Opinion That Matters When It Comes To Your Relationship Is Yours @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you.

Have you ever had unwelcome advice or opinions from other people about your relationship? Or have you been on the other side where you really want to tell someone how you feel about their relationship but didn’t know how? How do you feel now you’ve watched the video?  Have you set boundaries with parents, friends or colleagues as to what is and isn’t OK for them to share?  Would you like to know more about setting boundaries? Has the video brought up any questions?

Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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