LPPTV Episode 4 - How Do I Get Any Girl (or Guy)? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

LPPTV Episode 4 – How Do I Get Any Girl (or Guy) I Want?

LPPTV Episode 4 - How Do I Get Any Girl (or Guy)? - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionMost of us have wondered at some point or another in our dating history how we can get someone to like us.

We’ve met someone who we felt really attracted to, who we wanted to date, or to have a relationship with, but for some reason they didn’t seem to feel the same.

It’s frustrating, it can hurt…and it can definitely lead us to ask if there’s anything we can do to change the situation.

Most of us have wondered whether there is a secret to being able to get any guy or any girl that we set our sights on…but rarely do I meet people who have the courage to ask such a direct question.

This week, however, one of these people found me!

So today I’m answering another question from an LPPTV viewer.  Vikash asks:

“How Do I Get Any Girl I Want?

Tweet the Love… Rather Than Trying To Get Any Girl, Learn How To Attract The Right Woman For You @LovePPassion

Tweet the Love… Rather Than Trying To Get Any Man, Learn How To Attract The Right Man For You @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you.

Have you had a situation like this?  Have you realised some time later that the person you used to want, actually wasn’t right for you?  Have you been through the transition from wanting any girl or guy to focusing on the ‘right person’ for you?  What changed for you when this happened?  What are the challenges that you’ve had with this kind of situation?

Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 3 – Do We Need Space To Be Friends?

LPPTV Episode 3 - Do we need space in order to be friends - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity & PassionThere have been several times in my relationship history that a relationship  has either come to an end, or not really ever started and one party or the other has wanted to remain friends.

Transitioning any relationship from one type to another can be challenging, but probably one of the toughest transitions is from partners, or potential partners to friends.

By being potential partners, or by being involved with each other intimately, you open yourself up to a wider range of emotions and experiences…and these can make things complicated.  When you’ve been intimately attracted to someone (or maybe are still attracted to them), or have had deep feelings of connection or romantic love, finding your way through that to friendship isn’t always easy.

So today I’m answering another question from an LPPTV viewer.  Amy asks:

“You’ve dated a guy, there was great chemistry, but you couldn’t make a relationship work, and are now trying to “be friends”, even though there are still feelings and attraction between the two of you.

My question is, is it better to cut all ties and have NO contact until both parties are “over it”, or maybe to be playful and go with the flow and see what happens?

Having been through this situation myself, I know how complicated it can be…so today I’ll answer the question, “Do we need space in order to be friends?”

Tweet the Love… To Attract Your Ideal Partner Make Sure There Is Space For Them @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you.

Have you had a situation like this?  How did you deal with it?  What worked for you?  Did you find that space and time helped?  Did you choose not to have space and time and how did that work for you?  What are the challenges that you’ve had with this kind of situation?

Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 2 - Have you ever had a 69 - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity & Passion

LPPTV Episode 2 – Have You Ever Had a 69?

LPPTV Episode 2 - Have you ever had a 69 - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity & PassionLast week I shared with you how important it is for you to ‘Ban the Blame’ in relationships and instead look to take responsibility.

But the question is, how?

What does ‘taking responsibility’ look like? …and how can doing it make any difference to the challenges you’re experiencing in your relationship?

After sharing last week’s episode I got sent a question asking exactly that:

Claire, your video has opened my eyes as my relationship has gone from great to “buddy/Friends” but every now and then we feel more than just that.

The blaming others and myself is something I will admit that I have been doing lately. With the blaming and taking responsibilities I am not sure how to shift myself and perhaps my mind is stuck in a rut.

Just a small example of asking your partner to do something and he acknowledges it will be done, but when I come home and nothing is done it drives me mad or feels like a lack of showing support.

Some days I just want to cut the string and go, but the other part of me wants to stay. I do love him but just hate the disconnection feeling.

This is really the first time I have opened up and I’d really like some input on how I can shift this by taking responsibilities.”

So how DO you take responsibility?  And what on EARTH has it got to do with a 69…?

Tweet the Love… If your partner isn’t meeting your needs, first ask yourself “Am I meeting theirs?” @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you.

What are the challenges that you’re currently facing in your relationship? And how can you ‘Triple S’ the situation?  What do you discover when you look at the situation from your partner’s point of view?

Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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LPPTV Episode 1 - Ban the Blame - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and Passion

LPPTV Episode 1 – The most important relationship advice I could give…

LPPTV Episode 1 - Ban the Blame - Claire Brummell, The Relationist, Love Polarity and PassionEver wondered what a relationship specialist thinks is the most important piece of relationship advice?

Well wonder no longer…because today I’m going to share with you what I believe is the most important piece of relationship advice anyone could give you.

…and why am I sharing this with you today?

Simple. Today is a celebration…the launch of LPPTV, a weekly TV show to answer YOUR questions about Love, Polarity, Passion, Dating, Relationships, Men, Women…you name it, I’ll cover it.

So to get us started I thought I’d answer one of the questions I get asked most…if you could only share one piece of relationship advice, what would it be?

Tweet the Love… When You Ban the Blame, Your Whole Relationship Will Change @LovePPassion

Now I’d love to hear from you.

What are the ways in which you can see that you’ve blamed either yourself or someone else in relationships in the past? …and what are the new choices that you’re going to make to create a different outcome in the future?

Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?

Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.

Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.

…and if you haven’t already, be sure to get your hands on the FREE video series “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship” by clicking here now.

Wishing You Love,

Claire x

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