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Do you want a relationship filled with

Love, Polarity & Passion?

Do you want to understand the man in your life better

...and help him to understand you?

Do you want to know how to be her hero...

...and light your woman up?

Or are you tired

of being single?

Do you want to create and develop a fantastic

mutually fulfilling relationship?

I can show you how...

How Can I Help You?

As I’ve said before, I believe that everyone deserves to have a great intimate relationship.

So how can I help you with yours?

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We all know at some level that relationships affect every area of our lives.Dating

Relationships affect our business life, our family life, our social life, and our intimate life… but some have a greater impact than others.

Our intimate relationship can drastically affect how we feel and our experience of life.

When things are great, there’s no feeling quite like it.  You feel light, you feel energised, everything feels easier and anything seems possible

When things are not so great, it can feel like there’s a black cloud following you around that you can’t shake no matter what you do.  You feel heavy, you feel drained, everything feels like hard work and it feels like a constant distraction from the things in life that you would normally enjoy.  Because of this you eat more, you drink more, you just stop caring as much.

When you’re alone and you don’t want to be it can feel like you’re the only single person in the world.  You hate not having someone to come home to, share the things you enjoy with or to reach out to if you’re having a tough time…your desire to find someone can begin to feel all consuming.

But we’re not taught at school how to resolve a difference of opinion with someone you care about, there aren’t many degrees in how to find and create the quality of relationship you desire and deserve, there aren’t a lot of further education courses on how to understand and communicate your needs and those of your partner and I don’t know of any apprenticeships on how to understand another person (especially of the opposite sex) or help them to understand you.

We learn from our family, our friends…or worse, the media.  But no-one taught them tried and tested techniques for having great relationships…they did the same as you’ve done, tried to figure it out from the people around them and they’ve done the best with what they’ve got.

As I said…I know it’s possible to learn how to create fantastic relationships.

I can say with absolute certainty that the answer is yes.

How do I know?

I’ve done it.

For most of my life I went through relationship after relationship that either blew up in my face, plateaued into feeling like friends or roommates or was just downright toxic.

But now, after years of research, experience, and making a lot of mistakes, I get it. 

Now I have the understanding, the tools and techniques that have helped me to find a quality of partner I wasn’t sure existed and to create with him a level of connection and true partnership that previously I’d only dreamed about.

So the question is….how can I help you?

I’ve learned from experience that relationships aren’t easy. When you get two completely unique individuals who come together to share part or all of their lives together it’s going to create challenges.

The good news is that although they’re not easy, they are worth it…and with the right knowledge, help and guidance I truly believe that anyone can learn the well kept secrets to making them work.

So select the tab that relates specifically to you to find out more about how I can help you with your specific situation.

...I’m a single man or woman

Single ManSingle WomanSo you’re now at a point in your life where you want to find someone to share your life with…but youdon’t know how to find them, how to know if they’re right for you, or how to make a relationship with them work.

Do any of the following questions sound familiar?

  • How do I avoid the mistakes I’ve made in the past?
  • How can I avoid the common dating pitfalls?
  • How can I skip all the ‘game playing’?
  • What will make me more attractive to the kind of person I want? (hint: it’s not what you think it is)
  • How do I know if someone is a ‘good fit’ for me?
  • What do men want?
  • What do women want?
  • How do I find the person who is ‘right’ for me?
  • How do I understand someone who is so completely different to me?
  • How can I avoid all the common mistakes that people make in relationships?
  • When I find the person I’m looking for, how do I create a relationship that actually works?

Normally it takes time, experience and making a lot of mistakes along the way to answer these questions and figure these things out, but the chances are you’d prefer an easier approach.

I can share with you, insights, techniques and support in understanding how to get the most out of your dating experience, and help you take a few shortcuts along the way to make it an easier, quicker and more enjoyable process.

In my experience there are three main areas that people need help when it comes to finding and creating the relationship they’re looking for:

  • Pre-Dating – We’ve all had experiences with dating and relationships, and we all pick up baggage along the way from these experiences. Pre-dating support understands that if you’re single at this point in your life, there’s probably a reason. 

    It could be that you’ve just not chosen to focus on this area of your life, it might be that you’re afraid of getting hurt, it could be that your previous experiences with dating and relationships have affected you in ways you’re not aware of and it could just be that you’ve not been shown how to be successful in dating and relationships.

    I can help you to understand the reasons and make the changes necessary to put you in the best position possible to be able to find and create the relationship you want, as and when you choose to begin dating.

    In my pre-dating support I can help you to:

    • Let go of any baggage that you might be carrying from previous experiences
    • Understand why your previous experience with dating and relationships haven’t been successful.
    • Get rid of old patterns that haven’t been serving you and create new ones that will.
    • Learn the 12 mistakes that people making in dating and relationships, and how to avoid them.

    I provide insights, support, guidance and advice to help set you up for success in dating and relationships.

  • Dating Support – Dating can be challenging.  There seems to be a lot of game playing, mixed signals and confusion. At times it can be hard to know what to think, what to say and what to do. 

    We can be afraid of making a fool out of ourselves, not getting it ‘right’ and of being rejected as a result.

    My Dating Support service provides you with support, advice and guidance to help you better understand the opposite sex (or same sex) and navigate the dating process in a way that is more effective and more enjoyable. I can help you to answer some of the questions:

      • How do I approach them?
      • How do I avoid previous mistakes?
      • What do I say?
      • What do I do?
      • How can I get them to like me?
      • How can I get better at choosing the right person?
      • What are they thinking?
      • What do they want?
      • Do they like me?
      • What are the signals they’re giving me?
      • Are they playing games?
      • What did that mean?
      • How do I take things to the next level?

    I can support you in navigating the dating world powerfully in a way that will serve you…help you to repel the people who aren’t right for you and attract those with whom you have the potential for a real and lasting connection.

    I provide insights, support, guidance and advice for your specific dating circumstances to help you to get the most out of dating and to enjoy the process.

  • Setting yourself up for relationship success – So you’ve done the dating thing, and you’ve found someone with whom you feel you have real relationship potential, but you’ve been here before, made mistakes and you want this time to be different. 

    Dating is one thing…relationships are something else entirely.

    What works when you’re dating, doesn’t necessarily apply when you’re in a longer-term exclusive relationship…so how do you make the transition without everything falling apart?

    My “Setting yourself up for relationship success” service provides you with everything that you could want and need to build a strong relationship that serves both of your needs.

    Through “Set Yourself up for Relationship Success” coaching and mentoring I can:

      • Help you understand the differences (and similarities) between men and women, and how these can help your relationship, rather than harm it.
      • How to avoid blaming them for what comes naturally to them.
      • Teach you how to communicate effectively with your partner so that you both feel heard and understood.
      • Help you to both meet their needs and get your needs met.
      • Teach you how to create and maintain passion.
      • Show you how to deal with problems and provide help and support when challenges come up.
      • Cover the 12 steps to creating success in any relationship in detail, focusing on the areas of biggest challenge / impact to your and your relationship.
      • Provide insights, support, guidance and advice for your specific relationship to help avoid or minimise problems and create more love, passion and enjoyment for both of you.

...I’m a man in a relationship

252798_7041So you’re in a relationship but things aren’t quite as you’d like them to be…you’re not as happy as you want to be, and you believe there is more.

You want to know how to be her hero, how to light her up, how to make her smile.

You want to feel needed, acknowledged and appreciated, rather than criticised, unimportant or ignored.

You wish that she’d just tell you what she wants, so you can provide it for her, help her to fix any problem she has and be a winner in her eyes.

You want to feel free to be all of you, knowing that you’ll be accepted, not criticised or rejected.

You want to know how you can improve the situation.  How to communicate with her in a way that she can understand, how to understand your needs and hers, how to understand and work with (rather than against) the differences between men and women, how to avoid potential arguments, and how to quickly and effectively resolve the ones that do slip through the net.

You want to be sharing the best of life together, laughing, talking and enjoying quality time both inside and outside of the bedroom.

Maybe…

  • …you and your partner are always arguing, and she never seems to be on your side.
  • …your relationship has plateaued and you don’t know how to revive it.
  • …your relationship is good…but you want it to be amazing.
  • …you’re bored in your relationship.
  • …you don’t understand your partner or she doesn’t seem to understand you.
  • …things used to be great, but you’ve lost that little spark and want to know how to get it back.
  • …you don’t know how to connect with your partner.
  • …life / kids / business has got in the way.
  • …you’re considering ending your relationship, but you want to know that you’ve tried everything you can before calling time.

My relationship services provide you with everything that you could want and need to build a strong relationship that serves both of your needs.

To help you be the man that you want to be for yourself, for her and for your relationship together.

Through my relationship coaching and mentoring I can:

  • Teach you how to communicate effectively with your partner so that you both feel heard and understood.
  • Help you understand the differences (and similarities) between men and women, and how these can help your relationship, rather than harm it.
  • Help you understand how to avoid blaming them for what comes naturally to them….and how to encourage them to do the same for you.
  • Help you to both meet her needs and get your needs met as well.
  • Teach you how to create and maintain passion
  • Show you how to deal with problems and provide help and support when challenges come up.
  • Cover the 12 steps to creating success in any relationship in detail, focusing on the areas of biggest challenge / impact to your and your relationship.
  • Provide expert support, tools and techniques for your specific relationship to help avoid or minimise problems and create more love, passion and enjoyment for both of you.
  • Help you understand how to be her hero, and how to feel like one in her eyes.
  • Teach you how to show up for her in a way that she will really respond to.
  • Help you to learn how to reclaim your masculinity in your relationship in a way that will serve both you and your partner.
  • Help you better understand your partner; Insight into what she’s likely to be thinking and feeling, her responses, learning how to interpret her signals and understanding her experience of your relationship as a woman.
  • Helping you to understand women, femininity and what they most desire from their man.
  • Teach you how to meet the needs of a feminine woman
  • Share with you the Power of Polarity – How the Masculine and Feminine can Flourish together
  • Teach you how to work together to create the relationship you’ve always desired and deserved.
  • Help you to understand how to Revive Your Relationship, and how you alone have the power  to change the situation.
  • Share with you how to reignite the Passion in your Relationship
  • Help you to understand how to avoid past problems, challenges and patterns and make changes that will serve you both going forward.
  • Share with you how to take a good, solid foundation and build on that to take your relationship to the next level.
  • Help you to understand your current situation better, and how to navigate through it to find the solution which will support both of your needs best.

...I’m a woman in a relationship

Woman in relationshipSo you’re in a relationship but things aren’t quite as you’d like them to be…you’re not as happy as you want to be, and you believe there is more.

You want to feel loved, cherished, wanted and adored.

You want your man to make you feel like the most important person in his world, to know how important and special you are.

You want to hear how beautiful you are, how he feels about you and to know that you belong, rather than feeling like his mother, a nag or like you’re being ignored.

You wish he knew instinctively what you want and need, and would do whatever he could to give it to you.

You want to trust him to meet your needs, to care how you’re feeling and to be there to hold you and listen to you when you get upset, angry or overwhelmed.

You want to know that you can be all of you with him, without feeling rejected.

You want him to understand that you don’t want or need to be fixed…you just want to feel heard.

You want him to make you feel like a woman.

You want to know how you can improve the situation.  How to communicate with him in a way that he can understand, how to understand your needs and his, how to understand and work with (rather than against) the differences between men and women, how to avoid potential arguments, and how to quickly and effectively resolve the ones that do slip through the net.

You want to be sharing the best of life together, laughing, talking and enjoying quality time both inside and outside of the bedroom.

Maybe…

  • …you and your partner are always arguing, and she never seems to be on your side.
  • …your relationship has plateaued and you don’t know how to revive it.
  • …your relationship is good…but you want it to be amazing.
  • …you’re bored in your relationship.
  • …you don’t understand your partner or he doesn’t seem to understand you.
  • …things used to be great, but you’ve lost that little spark and want to know how to get it back.
  • …you don’t know how to connect with your partner.
  • …life / kids / business has got in the way.
  • …you’re considering ending your relationship, but you want to know that you’ve tried everything you can before calling time.

My relationship services provide you with everything that you could want and need to build a strong relationship that serves both of your needs.

To help you be the woman that you want to be for yourself, for him and for your relationship together.

Through my relationship coaching and mentoring I can:

  • Teach you how to communicate effectively with your partner so that you both feel heard and understood.
  • Help you understand the differences (and similarities) between men and women, and how these can help your relationship, rather than harm it.
  • Help you understand how to avoid blaming them for what comes naturally to them….and how to encourage them to do the same for you.
  • Help you to both meet his needs and get your needs met as well.
  • Teach you how to create and maintain passion
  • Show you how to deal with problems and provide help and support when challenges come up.
  • Cover the 12 steps to creating success in any relationship in detail, focusing on the areas of biggest challenge / impact to your and your relationship.
  • Provide expert support, tools and techniques for your specific relationship to help avoid or minimise problems and create more love, passion and enjoyment for both of you.
  • Help you understand how to help him step up and be the man you’ve always wanted, to help you feel loved, cared for and safe in his arms.
  • Teach you how to be with him in a way that he will really respond to.
  • Help you to learn how to reclaim yourself in your relationship in a way that will serve both you and your partner.
  • Help you better understand your partner; Insight into what he’s likely to be thinking and feeling, his responses, learning how to interpret his signals and understanding his experience of your relationship as a man.
  • Helping you to understand men, masculinity and what they most desire from their partner.
  • Teach you how to meet the needs of a man
  • Share with you the Power of Polarity – How the Masculine and Feminine can Flourish together
  • Teach you how to work together to create the relationship you’ve always desired and deserved.
  • Help you to understand how to Revive Your Relationship, and how you alone have the power to change the situation.
  • Share with you how to reignite the Passion in your Relationship
  • Help you to understand how to avoid past problems, challenges and patterns and make changes that will serve you both going forward.
  • Share with you how to take a good, solid foundation and build on that to take your relationship to the next level.
  • Help you to understand your current situation better, and how to navigate through it to find the solution which will support both of your needs best.
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