When working with men and women around the world the one fear that comes up time and time and time again is ‘rejection’.
Everyone seems to be afraid of rejection.
In fact, most people are downright terrified of it.
People will do almost anything to avoid rejection: Twist themselves into a pretzel to be the person they think someone else will want, hide the ‘real them’ in case the other person doesn’t appreciate them…even avoid relationships completely!
Now these might seem like extreme tactics, but in my experience most people have done at least one of these things at some point in their lives.
All because they didn’t want to be rejected.
But I think that rejection has had a bad rap. In fact, I think rejection could become your best friend and ally in the world of dating and relationships.
I’d even go so far as to say that rejection can be AWESOME.
Have I lost my marbles?
You’ll have to watch the video to find out…
Now I’d love to hear from you.
What has your experience of this been? Have you been rejected by someone, only to find someone later who seems so much more right for you? Have you been distraught at the end of a relationship, only to realise later that actually it’s been the best thing to happen to you? Are you grateful that someone has rejected you in the past, because it helped you find the person you were meant to be with? Are you currently struggling with rejection, and do you have any questions about how to deal with it? What are the challenges you’ve faced with rejection?
Or, ask me a question that you would like me to answer on a future episode of LPPTV, what is the one thing you’d like to know? What is the biggest challenge you’re facing in your relationship situation right now?
Please share with as much detail as you can because your insight and questions may provide a breakthrough for someone else and I guarantee if you’re thinking it, someone else is too and they could benefit from you having the courage to share your thoughts and questions.
Thank you in advance for having the courage to share and being kind and understanding in the comments.
Wishing You Love,